Thursday, January 17, 2013

A Letter to My Representative

Dear Representative,

I am a constituent in your district, and I write to express my support for a comprehensive approach to addressing and stemming the increase in gun violence in our country. 

Specifically, I ask you to vote in favor of:
  • Restrictions on the sale and access to semi-automatic firearms, automatic firearms and high-capacity magazines of ammunition;
  • An outright ban of the sale or purchase of body armor by non-military or non-law-enforcement individuals;
  • Access to mental health services for those in need;
  • Restrictions on access to violent video games and movies by children under the age of 18, either by requirement of presentation of a valid ID for purchase, or by working with the MPAA, ESRP, and other industry groups to revise rating standards;
  • More comprehensive background checks for purchases of guns, regardless whether the purchase is from a retailer or a private individual;
  • A nationwide system for tracking the movement of firearms from purchaser to purchaser;
  • A lift on the protections afforded gun manufacturers for product liability lawsuits; and
  • Additional enforcement authority for federal (and state) law enforcement officials to prosecute gun crimes, including trafficking of weapons.

In addition to being a constituent, I am the mother of a six year old child who is in first grade.  The massacre at Sandy Hook was incredibly distressing for me, to say the least.  As the news of what happened sunk in, many other things sunk in as well.  For instance, I realized that my son, who would most likely have stayed right by his teacher’s side, would likely have been murdered in cold blood by Adam Lanza if he’d been a student at Sandy Hook, as other children who were huddled by their teachers were.  I realized that in the two first grade classes at my son’s school there are about 30 children; had that shooting occurred in his school, a full 2/3 of the children would be gone today.  I realized that we can no longer assume that parents, who are overworked and overstressed and may not have the capacity or energy to tell their children “no” (or may not be aware), will monitor and effectively limit access to the games their children play or the movies they watch, or that the gaming and movie industry will do so voluntarily, either.  I realized that we can no longer assume that the mental health system will identify those in need and provide the necessary care; there is still too high of a cost (even in Ohio, where insurance coverage is reasonably accessible for mental health services, the administrative cost and burden is too high for providers to see a benefit in accepting insurance) and too much of a stigma attached to seeking therapy.  I realized that there is no logical reason for any person to have body armor unless they intend to do something which will get them shot at in return… I am relatively confident that deer do not carry guns, and therefore cannot fire back at hunters, so I question why body armor can be so readily purchased online or even in specialty stores or trade shows by non-military or non-law-enforcement individuals.  I realized that because of tragedies like this, there are proposals to turn our teachers – our teachers, who are underpaid as it is! – into armed militia-men, with the expectation that they not only calm our children, get them where they need to be according to the lockdown procedures and try to protect themselves from harm, but also engage in a “Dirty Harry” style shootout with someone who would undoubtedly be exponentially better armed than they are likely to be.  I realized that proposals to arm teachers or place armed guards at every door essentially turn our school campuses into mini-prisons.  And I realized that many objections to even reasonable restrictions on the sale or purchase of semi-automatic and automatic firearms, high capacity clips and body armor stem firstly from an increasingly fringe percent of our population who want to feel protected in the incredibly unlikely event that the government tries to “come get our guns”, and also from the gun industry, which has a vested interest in continuing to make billions of dollars on weapons that have no reasonable protection under the Second Amendment.  (I encourage you to research Antonin Scalia’s views on whether semi-automatic and automatic firearms or body armor are constitutionally protected, if you haven’t done so already.)  

Twenty first graders.  Six faculty and staff.  A mother.  And a very, very sick man.  GONE.  Let’s not forget the unthinkable horrors witnessed by the surviving children.  To see children being led outside with their hands over their eyes to shield themselves from seeing their classmates’ bloodied and brutally murdered bodies was, as the head of my son’s school put it, unhinging.  And the parents… the parents!  Can you imagine what it would have been like to have been one of the parents who rushed to the school, waiting to have their children brought to them safe and sound, only to be led into a back room to be informed that their child was one of the dead?  Do you really think that anyone – whether in your Congressional district or anywhere else in the country – should have to go through that when there are reasonable steps we can take to mitigate the risk that it would ever happen again?

Simply put, it is unacceptable that Sandy Hook happened, and it is equally unacceptable that the Sandy Hook families (and the Newtown community) are being forced to deal with such a profound loss.  It is unacceptable that we – as parents, as citizens, as constituents, as human beings – have witnessed this abhorrent crime, and that gun violence is so absurdly common in this day and age, and even accepted as a form of entertainment.  It is unacceptable to me as a parent that because of this act, I’ve had to explain (in very general terms, obviously) what happened at Sandy Hook to my first grader.  It is unacceptable that we have to check up with our children to make sure that they are doing lockdown drills, and that they understand how important it is that if something happens, they follow their teacher’s directions immediately and without question because it might be the difference between life and death.  And it is personally unacceptable that my son should be faced with his own puzzling questions, such as “Mommy, why didn’t the sick man get help so he wasn’t sick anymore?”, “Did he have an army?”, or “Why did he have a gun?”  Perhaps more painfully, it is unacceptable that he should be brainstorming solutions to the problem, including “Maybe they could just put cement up over the windows and doors in our school so the bad guys can’t get in… then we can all be safe.”

In other words, violence on this scale is unacceptable.

And more to the point, our government’s failure to respond to this national tragedy with comprehensive action would be wholly, unforgiveably unacceptable.

Therefore, I ask that you support and vote for any of the measures or objectives listed in the bullet points above, whether in sub-committee, committee or on the floor.  I ask that you not participate in any dilatory tactics which would prevent such measures for coming up for a vote at any level.  I ask that, if you vote against restrictions on the sale or purchase of semi-automatic firearms or automatic firearms, you provide a detailed explanation of your rationale, as well as disclose any funds received by you or any affiliated campaign from the NRA or groups associated with the NRA.  I call on you personally not to advocate, endorse or actually take a fringe or conspiracy theorist’s position on these critical issues, and as my representative to the Congress, I ask you to behave professionally, and to treat all members of Congress with full respect, whether you believe it is due or not. 

I intend to follow this issue very closely, and will absolutely hold each and every one of my representatives to the government, including you, accountable for their votes on this issue in the next election. 

Thank you for your time,

Kimberly